To parents, guardians, educators, villages, and all who have a hand in raising children:
The romanticized version of motherhood I had in my head before becoming a parent is vastly different from the reality. I thought I was prepared because I’ve worked with children since I was a teenager. Y’all, I taught middle school for eleven years—doesn’t that make me an expert?! LOL
I didn’t foresee the challenges that come with being a parent—especially as a single parent to a child with a neurodevelopmental disorder and a 4-year-old who is essentially the teenage version of me (Help me, Jesus!) The truth is, every day is different, and I’m constantly learning how to be a mother.
Recently, something clicked. What so many people have told me since I became a parent is finally sinking in—there is no perfect way to do this thing called parenting. You know what? I’ll probably need to remind myself of that fact often. What I do know is that I’m not alone. I have my village, and I have my God, who will carry me through. The little ones the Lord has entrusted to me are His, and I am grateful for the entrustment.
As we journey through life, raising little people who will love God, love His people, walk in integrity, and be true to themselves, let’s remember—it’s a blessing to be entrusted with God’s children: “Children are a heritage from the Lord”(Psalm 127:3).
The reality is, we will question if we are doing a good job; if we are good enough to do this. Guess what? We, by ourselves, are not, but with God, we are enough! We don’t know everything. We can’t see into their futures. What we can do is love them as Christ loves us—with forgiving, non-judgmental, unconditional love, and in truth. We can seek God, lean on each other, ask for guidance, make mistakes, and still keep trying.
“And he took a child and put him in the midst of them, and taking him in his arms, he said to them, ‘Whoever receives one such child in my name receives me, and whoever receives me, receives not me but him who sent me’” (Mark 9:36-37).
Let’s hold on to this: we are not perfect parents, but we serve a perfect God. Have a blessed day!
On Sunday, our pastor spoke about the "conversations of our mind" and emphasized the importance of keeping our minds pure before the Lord. He reminded us that our minds can become a breeding ground for trouble, if not guarded.
In many true crime interviews, perpetrators often reveal that their actions stemmed from thoughts they entertained—whether influenced by drugs, mental health struggles, or external pressures. This shows how the mind, in its vulnerability, can lead us astray.
Without the righteousness of Christ, our thoughts can take us to some dark and dangerous places. However, Romans 12:2 assures us that our minds can be transformed when they are renewed. Philippians 4:8 provides us with a guide—a list of things to focus on to cultivate a transformed mind. It takes effort to keep our thoughts aligned with God’s righteousness, but it is possible.
Let’s not forget, a mind is a terrible (and dangerous) thing to waste. As Philippians 2:5 reminds us, “Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus.”
Have a blessed and “mind stayed on Jesus” kind of day!
I asked God for forgiveness today. Of course, I do that every day—several times a day—but this time, my request was not general; it was specific.
God has entrusted me with many blessings: my children, my ministry on Facebook, my work, my church responsibilities, and so much more. Yet, I must admit, there are times when those blessings, individually or collectively, feel overwhelming or even frustrating. In those moments, I realize I’m not as thankful as I should be for the gifts I’ve been given. I know I’m not alone in this.
It’s human nature to feel stressed or to question whether the choices we’ve made were the right ones. But in those moments, we must remind ourselves of a powerful truth: “What God has ordained, He will sustain” (Apostle Prothro). The Word reassures us, “My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness... for when I am weak, then am I strong” (2 Corinthians 12:9-10).
The truth is, we can’t do anything on our own. When we try to, the weight becomes unbearable. We are not designed to walk through trials without seeking the Lord or acknowledging His presence. When we leave Him out, we may find ourselves buckling under the load.
So today, let’s choose gratitude. Let’s remember that everything God has entrusted to us comes with everything we need for the journey. If He called us to it, He will bring us through it.
Have a blessed day!
I was watching Sweet Magnolias (for the umpteenth time ). In the episode I watched last night, one of the town’s chefs was heartbroken after a breakup. Everywhere he turned, he was reminded of the hurt. Then, an offer came his way—one that seemed to be right on time, almost like a rescue from his pain. It seemed perfect on the surface, so he took the bait. Unfortunately, that decision brought him even more hurt.
The takeaway? When we’re in a vulnerable place, searching for relief or answers, opportunities may arise that seem perfect. But not everything that looks or sounds good is from God.
Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us: “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.”
Luke 11:28 says: “But he said, Yea rather, blessed are they that hear the word of God, and keep it.”
When asked how I discern God’s leading, I always say: “God speaks in peace.” If there’s uneasiness about a decision, if there’s no peace, or if it doesn’t align with God’s Word, it may be an evil distraction, no matter how good it looks.
If you’re pondering a move, be still and wait until the peace of God reigns in your heart. Don’t rush. Trust Him to guide you.
Have a blessed and peaceful day!
For those in LA, the devastating circumstances unfolding are truly heartbreaking. In times like these, it’s natural to question why—whether indirectly or directly—even questioning God. This is an understandable response. Please know that the affected area and its people are in my prayers.
Today’s Sunday school lesson reminds us of the authority and power of our God. While we may not always understand what is happening in the world, we can stand firm in the truth that God is always good.
We all face trials that wreak havoc in our lives. Though incomparable to the devastation of a wildfire, in our personal worlds, our struggles can feel just as consuming. To endure these tough times, we must call upon the name of the Lord and remember His faithfulness.
Psalm 93 speaks to His supreme authority and urges us to draw upon our testimonies to remember His majesty.
“The Lord reigneth, he is clothed with majesty; the Lord is clothed with strength, wherewith he hath girded himself: the world also is stablished, that it cannot be moved. Thy throne is established of old: thou art from everlasting. The floods have lifted up, O Lord, the floods have lifted up their voice; the floods lift up their waves. The Lord on high is mightier than the noise of many waters, yea, than the mighty waves of the sea. Thy testimonies are very sure: holiness becometh thine house, O Lord, for ever.”
Let us seek the Lord and wait for His voice, especially when we are going through and don’t understand. May you have a blessed and safe day!
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